Monday, 7 January 2008

Is it so hard to respect women???

Recent molestation of a girl by a mob in juhu Mumbai, shows that in spite of all the statistics that indicate India is doing very well in economic domain, despite all these slogans like "India Shining" are we really growing. A cluster of MN Cs, Foreign banks, Malls and rising stocks is not all that make you a developed country. Mumbai records more than 300 rape cases everyday which makes it one rape case everyday, OHH one rape case ONLY ONE rape case how does it matter............to common people the figure maynot convey anything but asked the one whos everything is lost. Passing lewd comments, sexual assault, molestation are sometimes taken as prerogative of male fraternity...............they normally have a reprieve in "MEN ARE MEN" but its equal to saying "RAPISTS ARE RAPISTS". No police, no administration can do anything in preventing it until and unless we change our mentality. what is worse in this respect is that men these days develop misogyny before they become men means in their school time only. All may not agree but i consider the sleaze and nudity on TV and in films and in Print and Media are serious contributors.

Though male fraternity is the real culprit but things like these can be reduced to some extent if girls also take some care, means is not at all necessary for a girl to stay alone among drunken boys in a pub and show her dare there, no one gonna nominate you for any Red and White Bravery award in fact on the other hand you may find yourself unconscious in a Police station lodging a rape/molestation case against the unknown. And also i donot know why has it become so essential to show your PANTY out of your pant and making the things further worse by keep on adjusting your pant thereby pretending as if you really care about it, as if you are modest of all and if at all its so mandatory that you will die if other donot peep inside your pant and notice the colour of your panty then you should wear it over the pant and let everybody see it..............i may sound a conservative and orthodox but we are increasingly forgetting he fine line between style and sleaze. Its absolutely beyond understanding when you already know the mindset of others then why to invite trouble yourself, mindset improvement is an evolutionary thing but can't we take a little care to keep the troubles away. Its really awful that incidents like that regularly happen and we people just enjoy it as spectators as if it is a india Pakistan cricket match........no one dares to say even a word.
With a pair of sex hormones in the pant men do not look at women even if they are looking at her, all they see is a body with two boobs below shoulder and a hole between thighs........ready to attack ready to grope........ . Each and every women eyeraped by more than thousand pair of eyes everyday...........shame on all of us.........
I really donot know what effect all these articles and Talk shows on TV will have on others..........but it really has made at least one person more careful and respectful towards women............

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